15th Jan 2016
Life can be funny sometimes, we guard against a lot of things – going to the Doctors when we are sick, taking out house insurance (just in case), servicing our cars, but often when it comes to our relationships we just expect them to tick along nicely without any outside help or input.
January is the perfect time to take stock of your relationship, to make sure you are both heading in the same direction and to guard against taking each other for granted:
Being committed makes sure that both people think in terms of ‘us’ and ‘we’ as opposed to ‘me’! This is the glue that sticks a relationship together – being prepared to compromise, but having one vision for your future. Being able to work as a team and both being prepared to consciously decide to be together on a day to day basis, rather than just gliding along…
It’s important as a couple to build memories and shared experiences. These can be from day trips, nights out, holidays and more…But at the route of this is a desire to spend quality time together. Maintaining unique identities and relationships outside of a partnership is good, but you must want to come back together for ‘alone’ time. It is the basis of shared experiences that will see you through any troubled times, rather than turning to other people.
After first dates and the initial heady throes of a relationship have past, it is easy to stop being curious about your partner. When was the last time you really asked questions about something important to them? There is of course a daily sum up – how was your day, how was work…But beyond that is a deeper understanding of their family dynamics, their hopes, their dreams, their childhood, and their regrets – any fears and so on. It is this level of intimacy that sets apart a lasting relationship from ones that are treading time.
If you feel like your relationship could to with a bit of investment, then try these tasks on a weekly basis and watch your partnership flourish:
I had a reading with Teya today. I was blown away by her understanding of my current situation. She made some very positive predictions and advice. I look forward to the outcome. Teya has a lovely warm personality and it radiates in her voice. Towards the end of the reading at my request she brought through some family members who passed over. I found her descriptions and messages spot on! I would love to connect with her again. Many thanks.
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I would like to share my thoughts and gratitude about the reading I just had with Marcus: He’s excellent! Connected immediately. No padding or filling. Spot on with what he picked up. Empathetic, emotionally intelligent, honest and humble. I was left empowered. Thank you, Marcus, I will call again.
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I had my first reading with Vanessa today. I was very impressed that she brought my late father through and described him in great detail. Vanessa has a lovely empathetic manner. She picked up in great detail my current situation and described a wonderful outcome to my questions. I was blown away by her understanding of myself as a person! She gave me a tremendous boost to my wellbeing.
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John is so gifted, absolutely brilliant, the best medium I have ever known! He has assisted me and many others more than he will ever know xxx Thank you.
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Bryony is an amazing reader. She is a very lovely, friendly and honest reader. All of my readings have been done with insights and guidance. Bryony really wants the best for her clients and has supported me a lot over the last 4 years. I would highly recommend her. She’s the very best and does not ask lots of questions and always picks up on my situation now and in the future. Absolutely amazing lady.
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Just had a lovely reading with Angel. She is so kind and enthusiastic and willing to provide guidance. I felt that she was naturally gifted at being guided by her spirits.
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Thank you so much Sandra for assisting me connect with my beloved partner. You gave so much detail around things that only I would have known. You are really gifted and I am very much looking forward to speaking with you again. Love and best wishes to you x.
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Thank you, Ruth, for being so patient and kind on our call. You touched on things I needed to hear and I was so happy to hear from the one person I was seeking guidance from. I will be back. Your gift has opened my eyes up more than you know. Thank you xx
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Thanks so much to John. I've had a few readings with John over this last year and he has really assisted me keep the faith in a situation that has all worked out as he said it would. His advice and insight was spot on and I can't thank you enough x.
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Betty was absolutely wonderful. She was spot on with what she told me. She even mentioned a place in the country that I live without me telling her. She is amazing!
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